that allows you to manage purposefully
in any volatile, uncertain, unstable, or unfamiliar situation.
a task – a relationship – a performance
These discussions contain all the information in the book, and perhaps more as it is updated regularly. It is intended, however, to let me walk you through what seems to be an immeasurable condition and show you how to make it both ‘visible’ and enjoyable.
I am teaching you a formula so you always are able to take an apparently difficult challenge and make it simple.
Look at it this way. You are trying to ‘see’ what is considered an abstract state using physical constructs. This is difficult for anyone. But look at it like learning a math equation. Before it makes sense, the problem may seem complicated, impossible. When you understand it, you get a feeling of having ‘vision’ into the equation and a pleasure in seeing how easily it resolves issues. This is the same with any learning process. When you have a problem you do not understand, it can seem huge, formidable. When you understand it, it seems small. But IT has not changed. Your understanding has.
These discourses allow me to give you a formula so you can build your own insights and make them yours. That way you take over and manage situations you previously found impossible. You simply lead your life differently with self-generated insight and discernment. Usually you go to therapy to help with a marriage or family discord, consultants for a business problem, or a pastor or physician for personal issues. This assumes that another person may be more insightful or capable than you. By understanding and applying a formula instead, you are the solver of your own challenges (they are challenges, not problems)
Purposeful life management, steady mental health, positive relating, means seeing how change evolves in these areas of life and approaching them with self-generated wisdom, courage, and assurance. This is a tall order because it means that you must first have the confidence and courage to invite the unknown into the private sanctuary of your mind without letting it hurt. This is why you will see that I will focus first on building your understanding of you and of change as a force that can derail or stimulate you, but elevate and build you if you know how to let it do so.
You will build your understanding through audio-visual discourses that dissect life, meaning, and your role as a cognitive being. It brings the written word to life using a verbal presentation aided by diagrams to explain the concepts.
I back it up in three unique forms. First, I offer explanatory videos on typical concerns you will encounter showing you how the Understanding Change process can make them easy and manageable.
Second, I provide several detailed articles that you can print and read at your leisure. That allows you to underline, read over, and also discuss the content so you can appreciate the direction better.
Third, I encourage you to contact me directly with any concern or question regarding your understanding of the discussions using a private message box that is secure and unique to each individual user.